Written by Guest Blogger Voltaire
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Your personal style is defined by the clothes you wear, your hairstyle, your jewelry, and even your cologne (“be judicious with cologne, citrus tones are best”- Rule #99 from the movie Wedding Crashers.) Before someone even begins to talk with you, they should know just by looking at you how you see yourself. Do you consider yourself a hipster? A rock star? A fraternity brother? A goth? A businessman? If your appearance reflects one but your personality reflects another, you no longer come across as being genuine, and women have an uncanny ability to detect phonies.
Once you have a good understanding of how you see yourself, you’ll probably want to update your wardrobe. In terms of deciding what you already have that’s worth keeping and shopping for new clothes, I recommend bringing a female friend with you and asking for her advice (buy her lunch and it’s a win-win for both of you).
Regarding hair style and facial hair, they of course differ based on personal style, but a good rule of thumb is to always be well-groomed. It shows that you can take care of yourself. And being well-groomed doesn't just apply above-the-neck; many women appreciate men that keep their body-hair trimmed and well-groomed as well. Have you ever heard of manscaping? It is the act of trimming the chest hair or other body hair on a male's bodice. Lauren says, "Men, if you have back hair, you might want to figure out a temporary or permanent solution to get rid of it. An untamed carpet on the backside or excessive shoulder hair is a dealbreaker for me. At the poolside, manscaping is essential." In a similar vein, keep your shoes clean and your clothes ironed.
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