Saturday, November 20, 2010

The Hunt for Love: Make your move!

Written by Lindsay K. and Lauren K. of Love Kudos

Have you ever seen the Bravo TV show, Millionaire MatchmakerLauren describes the show as a public display of love boot camp for Millionaires, with a side of matchmaking.  Yes, it is about finding the perfect match, but more importantly, it is about preparing the man or woman for the realities with love and dating. No one likes the game, but sometimes we have to play to win it. Love being the object to win in this analogy. The TV host, Patti Stanger, can be really obnoxious and outspoken at times, but we think she has some valid rules for finding love.  She frequently will tell her passive behaving male clients to be more aggressive and become a hunter.  What does she mean? 

Thursday, November 11, 2010

8 Illogical Reasons to Lie on Your Online Dating Profile

Written by Lindsay of Love Kudos
Edited by Lauren

Do you remember the commercial where the couple is having dinner during their first date and the attractive woman is in complete shock, because the older guy sitting across from her looks nothing like the cute prom picture on his online profile? Well, in case you don't actually watch commercials and just DVR all your shows, we will give you the highlights. Cindy*, the woman, uses her smartphone to look up his profile, and he admits the picture was from long ago. Love Kudos has always known of these type of deceptions, but recently we had a close friend that was dealt the "false advertising" profile. We really were hoping that everyone would be open and honest in their search for love, but we have come to conclude that this is not possible for the pathological liars out there.

Here are 8 illogical reasons why you should fib on your online dating profile:

This is a clip on someone who lies about who they are, not external appearances.
 The bs comes out eventually.

  1. You want to waste your time.
  2. You want to waste other people's time.
  3. You want to start a relationship based on a bunch of lies.
  4. You want to go on a number of first worst dates.
  5. You want your date to tell their friends about their horrible date.
  6. You want to be single for a long time.
  7. You want your date to play the guess your height and weight game.
  8. You don't like who you are.
You might be older, balder, fatter, saggier, and wrinklier than you were ten years ago, but if you can't accept who you are, then why would why should someone else? There's a lid to every pot, so someone out there will love and accept you. Not telling the truth on your profile, just sets you up for failure in the end.  It is a Love Kudos NO, NO.

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Sexting: Sam Jones does not get it! Do you?

Written and Compiled by Guest Blogger, Sam Jones

The communication mode known as "sexting" is a new form of foreplay according to some of my younger single friends. However, I just don't really get it. Flirting some in texting I completely understand, but sexting is something that is beyond me. I am too action oriented for endless messages that resort into sleeping alone at the end of the night and unsatisfied.

A blogger that Love Kudos recently started reading up on, Emily Macintosh, from L.A., wrote an article on the subject of Sexting. I think Emily needs to realize that sexting is simply a waste of thumb muscles and time. Text to meet and then do the dirty talk in person is what Sam Jones has to say.

Sexter Update! (and the future of Sexting?) 
from Emily Macintosh, My Life on Match & More

My tweeple know that The Sexter is on my shit list. He came back from a few weeks away and I have discovered he can talk the talk, but can't walk the walk.

When he returned, sexts picked up right where they left off. Things were hot and heavy until his impromptu visit to my office. He stopped by, said hi and left. Now, this is not how I saw things going in my mind? I pictured things getting pushed off my desk as I was being pushed onto it! No, that didn't happen.

Coming Up: A new blog on dating from the perspective of a divorcee.  

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