Thursday, October 8, 2009

Texting to Arrange a First Date ? NO, NO, NO

Dating Tip #1: Don't text to arrange a first date

So, you have e-mailed back and forth with your perspective online love interest a couple of times and you want to take things off-line, but you are debating whether or not to text her to meet you for a drink or coffee ... Don't do it. If she gives you her number, 9 times out of 10, she wants you to actually call her and have a conversation with her before she agrees to meet you out for a date. This call can make you or break you, but more often it will seal the deal. If you leave a message and you don't hear back for a couple of days, it is perfectly acceptable to text her to let her know that you called and see when a good time would be for you to connect. If she has a heart and is remotely interested, she will most definitely respond within 24 hours to your 2nd attempt. It is borderline stalkerish to text or call an online love interest a 3rd time or facebook friend them if you have not heard back from them. Remember, there are so many single men and women out there that you don't have to obsess over one person.

-Love Kudos- LKx2

1 comment:

Sandy Ross said...

This is very helpful advice. I never know if it is ok to reach out a second time when a girl has not called me back. Ty for your encouragement.

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