60% Match 61% Friend 37% Enemy."
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Hi G.T.
How are you?
How are you?
Lindsay
Good Lindsay.
And GT's final words:
"lol the message doesn't scare me, but I appreciate the attempt. There was no asking for an explanation anywhere in there... but I am sorry about the reflection, I was just having a bad day and decided to be grouchy in the wrong venue. That's ridiculous, uncalled for, and on and on. Sorry about that and you're somewhat right about how guys probably typically aren't selective enough and that there's an implied entitlement in that too on men's side (we shouldn't generalize about all women or all men, though.. either one of us). So sorry I bugged out, you're a swell gal and best of luck to you : )"
"lol the message doesn't scare me, but I appreciate the attempt. There was no asking for an explanation anywhere in there... but I am sorry about the reflection, I was just having a bad day and decided to be grouchy in the wrong venue. That's ridiculous, uncalled for, and on and on. Sorry about that and you're somewhat right about how guys probably typically aren't selective enough and that there's an implied entitlement in that too on men's side (we shouldn't generalize about all women or all men, though.. either one of us). So sorry I bugged out, you're a swell gal and best of luck to you : )"
The Love Kudos recommendation for all online daters is, if you are starting to feel frustrated with all the rejection or lack of hotties winking at you or flirting with you, then take an online dating holiday. Give yourself a week or a month off so you can restart open-minded, revitalized, and without all of the negativity associated with online dating.
Here are Some Do and Don't Reminders for Online Dating from Love Kudos
- Don't send a nasty message to that girl/guy that hasn't responded.
- Don't sign the end of your emails with "muuah, hugs and kisses, XO, or love"
- Do send one follow-up email (Lauren K. recommends you wait at least 3-4 days, but no more than a few weeks to send the "Did we lose touch?" email)
- Do ask Love Kudos for some professional guidance on your current online profile. (Perhaps your pictures are unflattering, blurry, or super outdated, and that is why you received the blow off or luke warm email response.)
- Do be wary of free online dating sites. (Lindsay K. has started referring to this free site as okstupid. Since there's no monetary backlash, any Joe Shmoe can sign up and start emailing.
- Do "google" your dates before you meet them and tell at least one friend where you are meeting before your date. (Just in case you end up missing for a day or two, it would be a good idea for someone to have a lead to follow.)
- Do talk on the phone at least once before your first date.
*G.T. Jungle is a fictitious name. We have changed the name to protect the innocently frustrated person.
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1 comment:
I think I am going to take a break like suggested from okstupid.
I'm still gonna check out who's viewed me but not actively search or message unless something good comes along. I'm exhausted from all of it.
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