Call me Voltaire. I am a guest writer for Love Kudos and will be bringing a male perspective to this blog.
Through twists and turns, good fortune and bad, I’ve learned which traditional dating rules can be bent and which can be broken. I am a believer that much of the conventional dating advice out there, while sometimes intuitive, will ultimately fail at leading men to successfully court the women they desire, or will seek to convince men to play a caricature and lose their sense of identity. I look to help men succeed in their dating lives by sharing my knowledge, my experience, and my passion.
Although most of my blog entries will be geared towards advice for men, I hope that my postings will also provide great insight for women into how men think.
At times I may come across as patronizing, at times you’ll laugh incredulously at my advice, and at times you’ll vehemently disagree. I welcome all of your feedback, both positive and negative. I encourage you to remain open-minded, try things you haven’t tried before, but never lose who you are.
“Be who you've always been, just be this as well.” – Dogma, 1999
One of the most common sayings in the dating world is, “Nice guys finish last.” Nothing could be farther from the truth.
Through twists and turns, good fortune and bad, I’ve learned which traditional dating rules can be bent and which can be broken. I am a believer that much of the conventional dating advice out there, while sometimes intuitive, will ultimately fail at leading men to successfully court the women they desire, or will seek to convince men to play a caricature and lose their sense of identity. I look to help men succeed in their dating lives by sharing my knowledge, my experience, and my passion.
Although most of my blog entries will be geared towards advice for men, I hope that my postings will also provide great insight for women into how men think.
At times I may come across as patronizing, at times you’ll laugh incredulously at my advice, and at times you’ll vehemently disagree. I welcome all of your feedback, both positive and negative. I encourage you to remain open-minded, try things you haven’t tried before, but never lose who you are.
“Be who you've always been, just be this as well.” – Dogma, 1999
One of the most common sayings in the dating world is, “Nice guys finish last.” Nothing could be farther from the truth.

