tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632048444013848217.post4728785438862333747..comments2022-12-02T21:28:02.698-06:00Comments on Love Kudos: Taking "One" for the TeamUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632048444013848217.post-28883935046493273902010-03-08T09:01:41.485-06:002010-03-08T09:01:41.485-06:00Stephen is right. First, the married couple MUST ...Stephen is right. First, the married couple MUST deal with the problems that the wife is sensing, because that may be a major part of what's keeping her desire for sex low. Of course married couples are going to be different than a non-married couple, but the same thing applies, but many people find it easier to end a relationship than talk about it. In a marriage though, sometimes you shouldn't just "take one for the team" if you feel there are problems much bigger than the number of times you have sex. And if your defense is "but the normal is..." you need to sit down and talk. Though I will say babies and pregnancy are reasonable excuses.<br /><br />As for single men/women playing wingmen/women, well it's always good to play that, but at the same time, there is something to be said about somebody who can go in solo and speak to the "target" (for lack of a better term) and the friend with ease.Thadnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632048444013848217.post-33667810129678060402010-03-06T17:47:15.430-06:002010-03-06T17:47:15.430-06:00Sex is a huge part of any relationship, but it is ...Sex is a huge part of any relationship, but it is often an extension of the overall health of the relationship as well. In my experience, inequities outside the bedroom are manifest in the bedroom. It may sound strange, but sex isn't just sex, it's PTA meetings and taking out the trash and sharing the chores, taking care of the kids and work. Keeping your sex life healthy means balancing all the other things out as well and taking care of each other outside of the bedroom. If you can manage that, then taking care of each other in the bedroom naturally follows.<br />If you can't handle each other, seek counseling rather than holding onto resentment.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00989574001033886033noreply@blogger.com