tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632048444013848217.post1849400686555110676..comments2010-01-03T21:27:20.947-06:00Lauren K. and Lindsay K.http://www.blogger.com/profile/02895777261641146147noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632048444013848217.post-91198790734192780242010-01-03T16:03:27.535-06:002010-01-03T16:03:27.535-06:00I would take it as a sign that he didn&#39;t call you for the second date. Neither bad sushi nor guys night out planning.... he is just not that into you. For that matter he doesn&#39;t sound like much of a catch or someone you should continue wanting to get to know. You can definitely do better =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2632048444013848217.post-85881714669335919312010-01-02T19:30:21.425-06:002010-01-02T19:30:21.425-06:00It&#39;s really hard to say which story might be true. On one hand he may be revising history to look less like a &quot;jerk&quot; though on the other hand, many guys seem to have issues showing any signs of weakness or vulnerability to a girl and especially to a girl he barely knows. I think some guys would rather risk looking like a jerk by saying they were on the phone for 15-20 mins then have you know they spent 15-20 sick in the bathroom from the food. <br /><br />It doesn&#39;t sound like you two were a match anyway. If he was unwilling to cut you slack for sending the waiter to check on him and you were unwilling to cut him any slack for having to wait 15-20 mins then it sounds like there wasn&#39;t real chemistry anyway. In my experience, if you really are digging on the person trivial things like that shouldn&#39;t cause you to get upset so early into dating. Best advice I can ever give to people dating and in relationships, &quot;don&#39;t sweat the small stuff&quot;. There will be plenty of big issues to fight about later, it&#39;s not worth it to let small trivial things upset someone.Kevin Blanchardhttp://www.kevinblanchard.comnoreply@blogger.com